strengths.

• Guys:

God programmed men to be physically strong. It's common nature that guys can lift more or hit harder than women. Go figure. Through physical appearance, it's evident that guys are more muscular and have a bigger build. Although this is a guy's strength, it's also their weakness. Some guys (if not all) let their big-baller, shot-caller, masculinity ego kick in and idiotically cause fights to raise their reputation or some other stupid shit. They take advantage of their capabilities and punch the next guy that "dawgs" him. Or even worse, they pull a Chris Brown and hurt their Rihannas. No, no, no! Physical strength is a gift from God to protect women and children. It's used to provide love and care for others and defend them from harm. Brothaaas, ya'll need to stop taking advantage and abusing God's gift to do stupid shit. Be thankful for the strength God gave you & use it for the greater good.

• Girls:

Now it's evident that females are stronger verbally. (I bet you brothas are nodding your head right now!) Women have a lot to say. Growing up with a Filipino mom, OH MY, she talks too much! But it goes the same fro guys, a girl's strength is also their weakness. I can't even count how many times gossip shoots off a girl's tongue. "She did this, he did that." This is how rumors start and drama takes place. Girls also tend to bitch and complain about everything. Yo ladies, STFU, lmfao! It ain't necessary to talk shit about other sisters. What happened to sisterhood?! God gave women the gift to speak. But in order to use this properly, ladies have to use their words to encourage men and children. Positively speak out to people and use your words to inspire and spread word of goodness. Maybe speak about God. The gift shouldn't be abused or taken advantage of, instead, use to promote optimism, encouragement, and inspiration.